i hate that as a woman scientist i’m expected to be tough ALL the time…like showing my femininity lessens the value of the work i do. i am kind of a dude, so this is usually not a problem…but sometimes i want to wear ridiculous high heels and short skirts and a lot of makeup to work…i have a hard time reconciling these 2 things. it was easier in miami where tacones (heels) are ubiquitous…but now i’m in hippie/uggs central…
i also REALLY miss kissing. but the whole ‘one of the guys’ often precludes that. blargh it’s going on 2 years now…
dammit brawny man…
